How to Deal With Backstabbers/ BACKFIGHTHERS
They might say they’re your ‘friend’ , but the moment you turn your back , they lie about you to others
All backstabbers share a common denominator; they all want something from you. Whether it is money, homework, a house to trash, your computer, your style, practically anything, it varies from person to person.
Be aware of your surroundings. If you have a bad feeling about somebody, listen to your instincts!
If somebody betrays you, don’t trust that person again without extensive consideration.
-If the other person doesn’t have friends of his or her own, there may be a reason. Perhaps other people know something that you don’t.
If someone is mean to you one minute and nice to you the next, there is definitely something wrong.
-If someone is too aggressive or tries too hard to sell you on something, he or she is likely setting you up.
-Trust your real friends. They’re here to help you.
-Notice the other person’s work ethic. If he or she is lazy and irresponsible, stay away from the person as far as anything that requires hard work goes. If you work hard, he or she will use you in a heartbeat!